readers, I need your help…

Right guys, time to test the power of the blog.  I need your input on an idea that I’m testing.  I’m going against all of the rules that say never ask friends and family – so call me maverick and run me out of town… but not until you’ve answered my questions below, please.

Here’s the concept:

A website, similar to an online dating website, but where people can meet new friends.

You know how, in the olden days, you used to join clubs or societies to meet people with similar interests, and you just took pot luck over who you met?  Well I want to take the hassle out of the connecting process and help make it more likely that you’ll meet people you’ll click with (geddit, “click with”? Oh I’m good…).  And take away any stigma in feeling like you’re a Billy/Norma-no-mates.

It’s definitely not intended to replace Facebook.  It’s about giving people a way of finding potential new mates in the real world.

Unsurprisingly, I am not unique in having this idea.  There are a few sites out there already that claim to do this.  The most modern one is citysocialising.  It’s closest to the vision I had, but it’s a little over-complicated for me.

Here’s where you come in…

I want your thoughts on the concept, whether you’d use the site, how you would use it and what you’d use it for?

I’ve put some questions below, so would be very grateful for your responses, but if there’s something I’ve missed or you have other input, feel free to add it in.  Oh and I should add that I’m not just looking for you all to tell me how wonderful my idea is… I want honesty and constructive feedback.  My next step is building this thing, so I’m relying on you clever people to tell me what to build.

1.  Do you ever want to make new friends or have you recently wanted to make new friends?  What are/were your reasons for wanting to make new friends?

2.  If you answered yes to Q1, how did you or how would you go about finding/making new friends?

3.  Have you encountered any difficulties in finding/making new friends?  If yes, what were those difficulties and did you manage to find a way to overcome them, or can you think of a good way to overcome them?

4.  Would you consider using a website to meet new friends?  If yes, what features would it need to have for you to use it?

5.  Who would you be looking to meet through the website?  What would you want to get out of the connecting process?  Who do you think this sort of website should be aimed at?

6.  Would you be prepared to pay to use this service?  What would make you more likely to pay for this service?

7.  Have you ever used a dating website? If yes, what did you like about it and what did you dislike about it?  What improvements could have been made to the site to make your usage better?

That’s all I can think of right now, folks.  In advance, I thank you for your time, intelligence and insightfulness.  Please post responses in the comments section below, or email them to me at

Besos x

One thought on “readers, I need your help…

  1. Hi love,

    will just give a few quick thoughts. not sure i would join a website like this but then i don’t think i’m much of a ‘joiner’. i guess there is still some stigma about saddos needing these groups but i do know some friends of friends who were involved with a ‘social buddies’ network and they actually had a pretty good social life so when i’m sitting at home all on me lonesome who’s laughing?

    i guess it depends on your reasons for joining, if you wanted to find people in common with you and you’re a chess freak i guess you’d join a chess club or a n other specific activity group. obviously, now with my circumstances, i’d be looking for ‘mum’ friends so there are plenty of groups i can go to to do that.

    i’m not sure i would pay but i’m sure there are people that would. there’s another site like this for the more mature person that costs quite a bit but i can’t remember what it is. will try and find out.

    yep, used loads of dating sites, hmmm, now what did i dislike? well, er, not meeting the man of my dreams… some of them sadly, the blokes being total dickheads and talking dirty as they’re only after one thing etc

    think i’m waffling really and not answering your questions as it’s a bit of a rush with Tobes etc and perhaps i’m not much use to you as I would probably not be the sort of person to use a site like this.

    hope you get some useful feedback.

    Em xx


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